Thanks for your thoughtful response A.J.

I wouldn’t really call feeling like I can be my true self and not curl my hair and wear make-up lack of hygiene, but I can see where some of my not-funny comments would make a reader think that. We definitely still shower, it’s just not the typical 2.5 times a day alongside the 12 daily toothbrushings that are typical with a new courtship.

You definitely made me check myself a bit though, so I appreciate that challenge!